Are you a boy or a man? We've all known the friend who took the big game, always bragging about how many girls he slept with, how much money he's made, and his fighting skills. This guy had some beautiful stories to go along with the bragging. At the end of the day, it was all talk.
To become a ladies man, become financially free, or become a good fighter takes work. Boys pick the easy way to try and achieve the status they want, and they do so by bragging.
This status is not real, and any real situation will always expose that. Men know talk is cheap and that action speaks louder than words. Know when to keep your mouth shut, knowing to put your head down and work in silence without breathing a single complaint. Men focus on doing instead of talking.
This is a hard one for many men. Stop playing video games and stop fapping. Video games can be awesome; however, you must be aware that they are created purely on your inner desires as a man. Why do you think an absurd amount of boys and men are addicted to video games? Challenge, competition, status, conquest.
The very basic of every selling video game is to play to man's human nature and desires. These achievements are fake, and if you lose yourself in video games, you dampen your ambition and life force in the real world. Another way of losing yourself in false reality is fapping to online content. Fake conquest which you are watching are other people. You haven't approached the opposite sex, and neither are you performing in the act yourself. Be aware of this and the fact that a lot of men end up with erectile dysfunction as a side effect.
Control your emotions. Boys often do whatever they feel like, men do what they need to do, whether they feel like it or not. We live in a society where they try very hard to make men like women. Society often tells boys and men to express their feelings, listen to their feelings, and open up.
The term 'toughen up' or 'be a man' is seen as toxic. However, this is where things take a dark turn. Men and women often express their emotions in different ways. When you tell a woman to open up and stop suppressing her emotions, she talks about her feelings and might cry. When you tell men to stop suppressing their emotions and listen to their feelings, they could become very violent. You might attack someone during a road rage because you are listening to your feelings instead of controlling them. Emotional control is one of the most fundamental pillars of masculinity.
99% of American school shooters came from a single mother household. Fathers enforced discipline and order in the household. With fatherlessness rising and society encouraging boys to just listen to their feelings, bad things can happen very quickly. This does not mean you keep everything bottled up as a man.
If there is a serious issue, you might have to talk to your brothers or friends. Maybe you have to let it out in the gym. First, you have to detach from the situation and look at it objectively. More often than not, things are not as big of a deal as we make them out to be. The best men you will ever meet have control over their emotions.
Emotions are not bad, emotions used badly are bad. Many boys have started going to the gym and have built a fantastic strong physique because of anger. This is an excellent example of emotional control and using it in a productive way. With this knowledge in mind, you will be shocked at how much potential you truly have as a man. By the way, if you want to level up in life, don't forget to show some love by hitting the like and subscribe button. Until next time.
There are brutal realities when it comes to evolving into a man, and age has nothing to do with it. It is hard to transition from a boy to a man, but modern society makes it a lot harder.
Modern society tries to feminize boys from an early age. Perhaps you too have been brainwashed by society and are a man-child as a direct result of that. Maybe you even put into the idea that men should be more feminine and masculinity is toxic. Think about this, ever since you were a little boy, you have been told your masculine traits are inherently bad.
Most, if not all, of your teachers were women, and if you did not behave like the girls in class, that means you were doing bad as a boy. If you are competitive, seek challenges, and have a lot of energy, you get shamed and scolded for it. At the same time, in order for a man to conquer, provide, and protect, these traits are absolutely necessary.
If you have been suppressing your natural desires ever since you can remember, the road to undoing the brainwashing will not be easy, but it will be worth it. More videos on this will be made in the future.
Make sure to subscribe to this channel so you don't miss them. Now, even if you do not fall for society's lies, that still isn't enough to turn you from a boy into a man.
Girls become women by reaching physical maturity, but boys have to pass a test. After all, men carry the burden of performance. If you don't perform in any field of your life as a man, the world will treat you as a worthless low-tier man.
Always Remember
A woman can be beautiful, and the world will treat her like a diamond as there is value in her beauty.
For a man, this is not the case. You must put in the work and create your own value. This is the ruthless reality.
However, you should see this as a good thing. It means no matter who you are, you can build yourself up to a high-value man. Take note of the men you truly respect in your life. What makes you respect them? you can learn a lot from it.